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We've answered a lot of readers questions over the years. Read them all or ask your own question.


Running Out Of Conversation

February 23rd, 2007
OK… My boyfriend is a kid-like person but he is very strong minded and he loves really deep conversations and many days I just dont know what to talk to him about. I have gone from politics to video games… I’m running out of things to say. More...

Say No In A Nice Way

February 23rd, 2007
I’ve been asked go go out with a load of friends, but I really can’t be bothered. How do I say no in a nice way? More...

Say No In A Nice Way

February 23rd, 2007
I’ve been asked go go out with a load of friends, but I really can’t be bothered. How do I say no in a nice way? More...

Good Communication

February 22nd, 2007
How can I maintain a good communication between me and my boyfriend? More...

Spanking Desire

February 9th, 2007
I want to be spanked, is that wrong? Kirsten Pratt Liam’s Answer – The desire to be spanked is so sinful that anyone even considering it deserves to be bent over a table and paddled. More...

My Girlfriend Is Growing

February 9th, 2007
At the moment my girlfriend and I are the same height, but I’m afraid that she’s going to get taller than me. More...
I want to know a good nickname for me. I’m sick and tired of people calling me by my name. More...

I Need Money Until Payday

January 21st, 2007
My bank balance is $450 withdrawn and I need a way to put that money back in and have some left over as I am not getting paid for two weeks. Is there any possible way this could be done in the next few days? More...

Mind Wandering Days Are Over

January 20th, 2007
I have a fear of letting my mind wander… I’m afraid it wouldn’t come back. More...

Speling Prbolme

January 7th, 2007
I have a terrible problem with my spelling. Can you help? Thanks. More...