Fiance Married Someone Else

April 1st, 2004

“Well my fiance and I had been together for 18 years and have 4 children. We were to be married this November.

He recently emailed me from his country while on holiday with our children to say he had met a girl and married her over there.

I am devastated and want him back. What can I do?”

Jo-Anne Carrick

Liam’s Answer

Yours is precisely the sort of story that reminds me never to let my girlfriend out of my sight for even a minute. One moment, you’re in a happy relationship with someone, and the next thing you know, they’ve fled overseas to marry the person of their dreams.

Engagements are a time when each partner really gets to know the other. The relationship moves from a “what if?” to a “when”. It’s exciting, and it can be terrifying. At some point, the realisation comes that you’re going to get married, and will have to spend the rest of your life with your fiance. For many people, that actually is a bit of a shock, and they call it off before crossing the wedding line.

Admittedly, at 18 years of engagement, your guy took longer than most to panic and want out. Perhaps what you loved about him was his constant procrastination. Perhaps what he got sick of in you was your complete apathy got get off your buytt and organise the reception..

Emailing you was perhaps a bit low, but perfectly understandable. I’d be too terrified to speak you if it was me, that’s for sure.

The great thing from your point of view is that he took the kids. This means you’re once again footloose and fancy free, with no encumbrances at all. I recommend you go out, get yourself a toy boy, and shag him rotten. Do all the tnasty things with your toy boy that you’ve always wanted to do. Have your totally wicked way with him, and lost yourself in an orgyu of pleasure.

If you’re feeling mean, send the photos to your ex to show him what he’s missing out on.

But if you’re determined to get him back, then, the best thing is to send a video. The moving image is much more powerful than a blurry jpeg. He’ll be on the next plane. I guarantee it.

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Fiance Married Someone Else