Will A Threesome Destroy Our Relationship?

February 15th, 2003

“Hi,

I was thinking of asking my boyfriend to have a threesome with me and my (female) friend. I have been with her before and its probably the closest I ever came to being in love with a girl.

Now for two years I have been involved with this really horny guy and I know he would say yes.

Problem is I’m scared, because they are two people I love.

I wouldn’t want to be left hurt because of them being together.

It’s really hard to know what to do. He fulfilled one of my fantasies , by asking his mate to watch us. I was blindfolded, so I didn’t know what was going on. I just wonder if I could lose him by fulfilling that fantasy of his (and mine).

I guess the real fantasy is being able to implicitly trust two people enough for it not to be ground shaking scandal. What do you think?”

Jemma George

Liam’s Answer

Are you sure he actually fulfilled your fantasy of having sex in front of his friend? You were blindfolded, after all. How do you know his friend was even there? How do you now there wasn’t the entire football team watching? I’m not sure you can trust this bloke.

Which is why you’re right. Your real fantasy is being able to trust someone. And given that what you’re really wanting is his permission to have an affair, I’d say that trust is something you’ll never actually see.

Do the honourable thing. Have your lesbian affair in secret.

And please send photos.

Chris’ Answer

I say, go for it. And please send photos.

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