Proposing a Threesome

May 27th, 2008

“We’re a happy married couple with a strong sexual life. We have lots very good friends (males) & some of them like my wife very much & they ask me to accept them to join our sex life as 3some (man-woman-man). I’m really excited with the proposal. How can I start to let my wife know about that & what’s the best way to make her agree? Thank you very much!”

Minh Tho

Dan’s Answer

First of all, let me say I am SO jealous! You’re a very lucky man to have other men wanting to have sex with your wife. What a rare treat.

And with only the small hurdle of “your wife knowing about your fantasy and actually consenting” to surmount, you’re a pubic-hairs’-breadth away from Cuckold heaven!

However, it’s important to approach your ultimate goal in small, maneagable steps.

Initially, perhaps you should meet these men 1-on-1 to discuss how the situation might work. You could role-play scenarios with them, discuss positions, fondle their balls, suck their cocks. Maybe you could dress up in your wife’s clothes and they could fuck you in the ass. Or, better still, they could introduce you to friends of theirs who would fuck you as well.

It’s normal at this point to start to cry regularly when you’re alone as you start to wonder whether sex will ever feel special again, and why you ever traded true intimacy for mechanical fucking. Don’t worry, this feeling will pass and be replaced by numb acceptance!

Once you’ve established the ground-rules and understand how such a situation would work in the longer-term, you’ll be in a position to introduce your wife to this fulfilling lifestyle.

I’m sure if you describe your fantastic new experiences to her (provided you don’t break down sobbing) she’ll jump at the chance to join the “swinging” lifestyle.

From that point on, you’re in the land of martinis and faux-tigerskin. Enjoy it, champ – you’re a winner!

Daniel Walmsley

James’ Answer

Deciding which one of your male friends you’re going to let up your wife is certainly a special and time-honoured part of love and marriage. How I envy you.

The way to achieve your wife’s consent is to start being really really bad in bed. (I suspect this is something you have already been unwittingly cultivating for some time) When your wife becomes exasperated at your complete lack of sexual ability, simply say “look lady. It’s a big job, and I’m going to need to outsource it”.

Then you can invite as many of your mates around as you like to fuck your wife, and she’ll be so grateful for the sexual attention, she’ll completely forget the fact that she is married to a moron.

James Hazelden

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