“I have a problem with guys and I don’t know what to do about it. I want what I can’t have, so the guys that I can’t date are the most appealing to me.
All the guys I can have I don’t want, and there’s no point telling me that I should try to go for them.
Whenever I like a guy, we go out. But then I completely lose all interest in them, and do not want to be near them.
I have no idea what’s wrong with me, and I really want it to stop!
Any ideas?!?!?!”
Caitlin
Chris’ Answer
Yours is a clear case of thinking that you don’t deserver tobe happy. Whenever you get someone who makes you happy, your subconcious tells you it’s wrong, and makes you end it.
Here’s what to do. Date a real bastard. Someone who makes you feel sad and worthless.
You may be miserable, but your subconcious will be over the moon.
Liam’s Answer
Caitlin, have you thought about becoming a lesbian? Or a nun? I hear they’re much the same – you completely forsake men, but still get to cry out
“Oh, God!” in the middle of the night.
