“I have this friend, and her and i are really really close friends,
and even though her past is shady (i.e. being slutty and doing drugs)
even though i know all this, lately i have started to like her, as a
girlfriend, how can i get myself not to like her that way, if we date
we will only lose what we have, right?”
Sexual attraction is a combination of nerve impulses emitted by the
brain in response to the scent of pheromones from another person.
If you want to stay plutonic friends with this person cut off your
nose and hope that she can still be friends with a person who has
James Hazelden is February’s guest problem solver.